Christian Dating Do’s and Don’ts for Women

Being a true Christian means that you should show it in every aspect in your life. As a Christian woman manoeuvring the challenging waters of dating, there are certain dos and don’ts that you should follow. These rules are based on what is instructed from the word of God, which is sadly often overlooked by a number of dating Christian singles. Don’t forget the teachings from the Bible and never forget to pray especially in dating.

Do check yourself if you are ready for a relationship.

You have no right leading a Christian man with good intentions when you know you can’t reciprocate this attention. Be kind and sensitive when dealing with suitors, and most of all, is honest.

Do make sure that the guy you are dating is a believer.

It is important that you ensure that you have the same faith as the guy that you are dating. This is actually specified in the scriptures that we should not be equally yoked with unbelievers. The Lord said that doing so could draw you away from your faith and away from Him.

Do let the person you are dating know where you stand in your faith.

Never let someone lead you to hold back on your faith. Since every Christian has their spiritual journey, don’t let yourself be a stumbling block for someone’s spiritual growth. Be a blessing instead and let this person grow more in Christ by what he can witness in your life. Dating doesn’t have to be about the romance but also how you both can be closer in and towards Christ.

Do know the person better.

Just because a guy is Christian means that he is readily the right one for you. Be very careful in choosing a mate, and you can help find him in prayer. Ask for the wisdom to see what is right according to the scriptures. Get to know this person better and also see whether you have the same values and outlook about faith.

Do present yourself decently.

As a Christian woman, you should be responsible for taking care of the purity of the man you are dating. This means that you should also dress decently and speak in a well-mannered way. Let your actions and the way you present yourself be a blessing instead of a temptation. Be someone who can bring him closer to the Lord, rather than farther away from him.

Don’t be afraid to ask someone out.

Just because you are a girl doesn’t mean you just have to wait for a guy to ask you out. Inviting a guy that you are interested is a good thing especially if you do it in a polite and respectable manner.  This doesn’t mean that you are balsy, it simply means that you like to get to know a person better. Don’t let anyone’s opinion matter especially when you only have pure intentions in mind.

Don’t allow yourself to be in spiritually compromising situations.

We are all aware about the risks with romantic relationships. If your sights away from the commandments of the Lord and from the purity that he demands from you,  you should be very wise where and how you spend your dates. Avoid situations that would make you two vulnerable to your own human weaknesses.

Don’t close yourself from the world.

If you want to find a good single Christian man, put yourself in the right places and surround yourself with the right people. Go to gatherings after church, go to church camps or maybe go on Christian online dating services. Open yourself to meeting new people. This will also allow you to grow as a person.

Don’t think that dating will immediately lead to marriage.

Yes, we should date for the purpose of marriage, but don’t put so much expectations into a single date thinking that this is the one. Give you and your date that time when you really get to know each other, and see if you both should take your relationship further.

God said in the Proverbs 4:23, “above all else guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life.” For you to be able to do this, you have to pray for every decision you make and to open your heart to what the Lord teaches about dating in the Bible. It guides you not only on finding the right person but also prepare you to be the right woman for someone.  

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